Love, its a hard emotion to define, not many people fully grasp it but some understand it enough to gain it. But in a relationship, whether it be between a man and a woman or man and man/woman and woman, Its hard to grasp. There are many kinds of love relationships, Short Term, Long Distance, and True Love. Now so be it that true love is hard to find, but its easy to see. In short term relationships theres always some remorse and regret to it, because most short term relationships are just a thing because we are wanting lust. Lust drives a lot of people into relationships its what drives a teen into those relationships that cause their life to crash down and become ruined. Short Term relationships among teens almost always end in someone getting a STD or pregnant. Now Long Distance is what I think to be one of the most impossible ways of love, I am a man, no a boy who wants to hold onto his girl at night and just not let her go. Long distances hurt because there are doubts, you never know if your partner is cheating on you or not, for all you know when there talking to you, they could be making out with a person from their school. True Love, its complex, but in most cases, its not Love at First Sight because thats what leads us into Short term mostly because Love at First Sight is a form of lust through the looks of the opposite/same sex. True Love, can be found through friendship, someday you'll be sitting with one of your friends and you might start feeling a little bit weird, but the strange thing is, you never know if its lust or love. I refer to the girls that you just look at and you just want to have sex with them, as Jailbait cause its true they are that. I've known a few of these girls and these girls are actually cool people, just I keep my distance do to the power of lust. But just when your hanging out with your friend, and after they leave, you just have them on your mind, you don't have an image but just what they said today on your mind, I believe that this is love because you do not see them for body but you see them for soul and heart. Normally if your that person who is the person that everyone goes to talk to, you'll understand when I say this. When that person you think about comes to you with problems, you stop whatever you do and talk to them, you help them with there problems whether it is emotional, relationship problems, physical your there, that shows that you love them unconditionally and even if there not with you, your happy for them and you want them to be happy with their life even if it is not with you. |
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